Chapter 6 goes over growth occurring in an infant from the
ages of 2-6 years old. The growth period
is also graphed in figure 6.1 on the bottom of page 131. This graph I found interesting because of how
close the weight/height is and also how close the height starts, and then
departs as the age increases. As of
weight at the younger age there is a gap, but as the child gets older and gets
to the age of 6, the boys and girls weight almost meet at the same lbs. I found that interesting only because in my
eyes, boys would always be much taller than girls and weigh more than boys due
to a boy’s body structure of muscle. I
can relate to his as remembering my size at the age of six (of course with the
help of pictures) and then to look at my brother when he was six years
old. He was still taller than I was, and
had a little more weight on him than I did as a female at the age of six. These graphs are a clear image if you do not
have someone of an infant to compare with.
Gross moor skills and fine motor skills was something new
that I learned in chapter 6. This
happens when the child is 2-6 years old, otherwise known as an important time
for growing motor skills. There is a
lot that is developed over these years such as psychological, social behaviors,
and biological these are some of many issues that can also include a child’s
stress level, nutrition the child is getting, and disease. Stress at this young age could be caused in
school while away from their parents.
This worldwide problem is called bullying. My opinion of bullying is that while away
from home with other children learning social skills, and feeling the changes
in their brains at the same exact time, is that the adults at school need to be
able to handle these situations ASAP. I
think that if the bullying can stop at school when it first starts to occur
both children will have more academic success, and more success developing
their social skills.
Language development is a key milestone with children, and
has no formal training. I found it very
interesting while working with young children that all of their skills such as,
incorrect language models, children learn sounds, and then combine sounds into
words, following that they put those words that are grammatically correct into
sentences. On page 142 in Chapter 7 of
LIFESMART it is proven that when children move into the first grade they have a
vocabulary range of up to 14,000 words.
Child development in a child begins in the early stages of
their social life, also known as social development. Social relationships are a big part in this
transition of a child’s life. A parent’s
role in this time period of a child’s life is curtail the process of behavior
learning also occurs, so if a child is bad they get a time out or even worse, a
spanking. On page 143 of LIFESKILLS,
Figure 6.8 contains a chart on the effects of spanking a child on bad behavior.
This chart shows that you can avoid
spanking a child and to just reprimand them on their bad behavior, this seems
to be more accurate in improving a child’s behavior, as to spanking a child
three times there is no change in cognitive ability. I don’t think this is the answer to raising
children in the social development time in their life because of the mental
affect spanking also has on children.
While having a child develops a social mind, I would want that to be the
only thing developing. If a child is
worried about why did mommy or daddy spank me, again after doing the same thing
that might confuse the child if they are not presented the bad behavior and
positive way to change the behavior at the time of spanking.
While reading your blog the term "helicopter parent" came to mind. My mother was one of those, she was fearful and obsessed that I not only be safe but, for lack of a better word, perfect.
ReplyDeleteMy wife, on the other hand, had dad that worked overnights in radio, so he slept days. My wife's parent had a faltering relationship, and her mother "checked out" and left her kids often unattended.
My wife ended up being more confident socially, but always seeks the interpersonal relationships and feelings she missed growing up this way. She is up to attend any social event and knows everybody in our part of town.
On the other hand, I crave to be alone most of the time, as I feel "under a microscope" in larger group situations. I feel like people who get to know me will eventually see my flaws and flee. My social yearnings are to be with a few close friends, and not venture much outside those.
Interesting that we're both compelled by childhood experiences in our social interactions. And so we openly wonder what we've done to impact our children's psyches.
I was compelled to respond to your last paragraph on spanking. I think spanking is acceptable, but not to the point of abuse. I believe this because of the "spare the rod, spoil the child" scripture. Spanking should be used as a consequence of disobedience, presenting a moment to teach the child proper behavior. If you discipline a child at their level of maturity, spanking will only be necessary momentarily. Additionally, spanking should never take place out of anger, and should always be explained to the child, again at their level of maturity.
ReplyDeleteGlad you brought up the topic of spanking. This has been debated frequently in the field of development. BF Skinner was a very influential behaviorist and he defined punishment as an increase in behavior. So any form of punishment that is effective really should be used rarely. I do agree that there are fine lines to consider and also parent's beliefs. However, with any punishment the true behaviorist question is the behavior truly being reduced after the punishment is given.
ReplyDeleteJaclyn, I appreciate that you brought up the topic of spanking, too. I think that spanking to correct behavior is ineffective and short sighted. Spanking is a negative consequence, and does little to promote desirable behavior. Spanking does not model how to behave in a particular situation, and this could lead to aggressive behavior or increased behavior in the future.
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